The One Question That Will Change You Forever
If there were no limitations or consequences what would your perfect average day look like?
Firstly let’s define some of the words in the above question.
Limitations – financial, geographical, health, time, etc. Things we use as excuses for not achieving what we truly desire.
Consequences – stuff that could get you into trouble or impact others.
Average – You could do it everyday and not get sick of it or get hurt or killed.
I know that this question is like a 400 part question, but it is vital to drill down to the simple mundane stuff.
You can never really get anywhere unless you know where you are going. Too many of us are walking around in a trance. Just living each day, worse still – JUST EXISTING!
Dream BIG
Think about experience
Where would you live?
What would your house look like? Is it clean and tidy? What does it smell like?
What time would you wake up each day?
What would you do in the morning?
What would you think about? What would you say to yourself? What are your first thoughts?
What would you have for breakfast?
What would you spend the first half of your day doing?
What would you have for lunch?
Who would you eat with?
What would your friends be like?
What conversations would you have? Would there be celebration, fun or laughter?
Now, you have to answer this question as if to say whatever you write down you have to live that day – everyday for the rest of your life.
What would you do for personal fulfillment?
What life purpose would you strive towards?
What would your business be?
What time would you start work?
What would you do at work?
What are your clients like?
What are your relationships like? spouse, family, self?
What do you do with your family for fun?
What do you have for dinner?
What do you talk about?
What do you do at night? Who do you do it with?
What would your thoughts be as you drift off to sleep?
Be as specific as possible
Now, you don’t have to show this to anybody else but sure that you read it everyday. The more detail you put in the more excited it will get you and the more likely you will take action steps to make it happen.
Tomorrow I will share mine, so that in 12 months time I can look back and see how close I got to my dream day.
I would love to hear yours if you are game enough to share.
Make everyday a fantastic day no matter what happens.
Looking forward to helping you live a longer, healthier, happier life.
Dee 
Believe in Your Dreams, Believe in Yourself
‘You can be anything that you want to be, if only you believe with sufficient conviction and act in accordance with your faith; for whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve’.
- Napoleon Hill
7 Keys to Living a Fabulous Life
- Dream
- Believe
Believe
Once you have decided that you are going to be successful in creating the life of your dreams then you must adjust your attitude. BELIEVE that you are capable of achieving your dreams. You must believe that your dreams are possible and believe in yourself. Believing in yourself is a choice and an attitude that you can develop overtime. It is your responsibility to take charge of your own dreams and beliefs NOW, no matter what has happened in the past. Learn to live each day with a positive mindset and begin to instill in your mind the unquenchable desire of your heart.
When you truly believe you get a gut feeling and you know that your dream is possible, even if it is far out of reach at this point in time. Many successful people living fabulous lives where not the most gifted or talented in their fields, but they chose to dream big and believe that anything was possible. Most people fail not because they lack the skills or aptitude to achieve their dreams but because they simply don’t believe they can achieve them. If you believe that your dreams are possible then you will do what is necessary to produce the desired results.
‘Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right’. ~Henry Ford
One of the first things that you MUST do is to give up the phrase ‘I can’t’. These two small words actually disempower you and make you weaker each time that you say them. So start by taking responsibility from removing ‘I can’t’ from your vocabulary and replace them with the question ‘How can I?’
You must believe that there is a plan and a purpose for your life. You reading this article is no accident. You must believe that you have a destiny of success waiting for you. You have talents, abilities, personality, character, skills, knowledge and looks that make you unlike anybody else – you are UNIQUE. You are designed with these talents, abilities, skills, personality and you bring value to the world. What you know and what you are able to do and who you are is designed to bring value to other people’s lives as well as your own. What is your purpose in life? You must believe that you were made for a reason.
Whatever your dream is, look at yourself in the mirror and declare that you are indeed going to achieve it – no matter what it takes. It is amazing what happens to your self confidence when you tell yourself forcefully what you are going to do.
If you dream and you believe, and you are willing to see it through then don’t listen to those around you who tell you that it is not possible. Surround yourself with people who believe in your dreams. Don’t waste your time listening to people who do not support your dreams. Ask yourself: Are they living their dreams? Support other people with BIG DREAMS and believe in their dreams also.
Never worry about what others think of your BIG DREAMS. If having others believe in you and your dreams was a requirement for a successful, fabulous life, most people would never accomplish anything. Base your decisions about what you want and what your dreams and desires are – not those of your family, friends and co-workers. Follow your heart, follow your dreams.
‘Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle’. – Christian D. Larson
Don’t waste years of your life. Decide that you are capable of doing anything that you dream of and start working towards it TODAY.
Share you belief in yourself or any obstacles you believe you have.
See you tomorrow for key 3 – Prepare & Plan
Dee
7 Keys to Living a Fabulous Life
You were designed to live a fabulous life filled with abundance, so WHY are you living a mediocre life? What barriers do you need to break through? What excuses do you need to stop using?
What is stopping you from reaching your true freedom – physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially?
What does a FABULOUS LIFE really mean to you?
We often mistakenly think that we do not deserve a fabulous life or wrongly feel that a fabulous life is far beyond our reach. We were all designed to live a fabulous life and in order to do so we must first see ourselves as being fabulous and look within.
The following 7 keys are designed to help you live your fabulous life.
- Dream
You have to have dreams and those dreams need to be BIG, HUGE, GIGANTIC, MONSTEROUS. Why not? You have nothing to lose and everything to gain from dreaming BIG. If you dream small, then small is all you are going to get.
DREAM BIG
Knowing your dreams and living them is the whole purpose behind your life. By knowing your dreams and living your passion, you have a powerful motivator to make changes in your life. By starting to follow your dreams your life takes on a whole new meaning and your journey to fabulous begins. You deserve to live your dream life and you definitely have the capability and the potential to do, be and have anything that you desire.
I recently learnt to dream big and follow my dreams and I am creating amazing results fair beyond what I ever imagined. I am creating the fabulous, abundant life that I was designed to live. I dream that I will be a successful business women, I will be financially free, I will take holidays with my family to destinations all over the world, I will live in my dream house and I will make the most of every day by being happy and having fun. I dream that I will make a positive difference in the lives of many and my goal today is to ignite or fuel the PASSION and DREAM in you.
What is it that you dream about?
What is your ideal vision of your body and your physical health? Do you dream about a fabulous relationship? What is your ideal job or career that makes you jump out of bed excited every morning? What does your home look like? What do you do in your free time?
You have two choices: Either you are going to live your life according to the circumstances that you have in front of you, or you are going to live your life according to your dreams and where you want to go. WHICH one will you choose? It is time to rise up and understand where you priorities really lie. It is time to really live your life, not just exist!!
Whatever your BIG dreams are you have got to latch onto them.
I’d love to hear about YOUR dreams.
Check out Key 2 tomorrow – BELIEVE!
Dee
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